Wednesday, March 28, 2007

ARAB GIRLS AND THEIR PRETENCES part 2

ok so where did i stop ............................ehn so as i was saying ,after living in my hostel 4 a couple of weeks i found out that this arab girls are not what they seemed 2 be.My roomate Asil(i'll call her name cos there is no possibility of her reading this blog)is honestly a very nice person(we aint on good terms right now though)but the problem with her is that she is tooooo lose and she's an envious bitch ,4 real if 1 of those her ugly male friends start 2 speak 2 me or even ask her 2 call me when they visit, the girl will start 2 look 4 an excuse 2 embarass me in front of the guyz.Two weeks ago 1 of her male friends took me to watch a movie cos i was bored at home, men when we got home the girl was sparking she was screaming at the guy in arabic and when we got 2 our room da bitch started asking me why i went out with him when i obviously knew she liked him. i was confused cos when i 1st met him she introduced him 2 me as her cousin so i told her not to blame me 4 her own foolish mistake and told her that both of them could go to hell 4 all i care(i only went out with him cos i wasnt only bored but also nearly broke and in Dubai you cant go anywhere with an empty wallet)this seemed 2 trigger the girl and she started screaming that all i do is try 2 snatch her men frm her(ok i admit that i get the attention of her "men"not cos i want 2 but because they see that i'm a black girl and they want the experience of dating and sleeping with a black woman cos they believe that black women are better in bed than their other counterparts).............................................................................

(WILL HONESTLY CONTINUE NXT TIME_

Sunday, March 25, 2007

A GOOD END TO A BAD WEEK

men i was totally stressed out last week with all da schoolwork i honestly can't wait to graduate.Well i had a really good day yesterday 2 make up 4 da shitty week.Can u believe that yesterday was Saturday (weekends here in Dubai are Friday and Saturday,Sunday is a working day)but i still had classes though the ministry(i don't know which particular one) decided to turn Friday and Saturdays into weekends instead of the former Thursday and Friday.OK i feel like I'm chatting shit so I'll quickly revert from the weekend issue.ehm..... as i was saying i had a great day yesterday cos when i was coming out of my school building in knowledge village (its a place where all the international universities are situated ) one of my naija friends got a phone call from an arab guy that's absolutely crazy about her and keeps on pestering her though she's not interested(she prefers black guys) he told her that he was waiting for her beside a nearby building. 4 real the girl was pissed but me and my other friend told her to at least listen to what he had to say because he was a nice guy and also really cute(he's also fucking loaded).K we all went up to him and after chatting 2 my girl,he asked us if we wanted a ride home, we obviously accepted because we were going to the mall to buy some stuff for a friend's birthday party and Dubai being the expensive city that it is will only leave our purses considerably lighter if we took a taxi and being students with no source of income and parents that are understandably tight-fisted, we jumped at the opportunity(also because he drives a Lamborghini Diablo and we ain't nvr been in a Lamborghini) .We were only going into Fendi shop to have a look and check for bargains(we ain't the designer crazy type i personally buy my clothes in a market called Deira which looks like Tejuosho market in Lagos except with a few non-blacks i honestly buy anything as long as it looks good and its affordable) before proceeding to our usual cheap ass stores,so when we reached the mall and the guy asked if he could hang with us we agreed ,though hesitantly cos my friend(the one he was toasting did not like him) . I was astonished when we got to the shop he asked us if we wanted to get anything(I'm not the kind of girl that accepts gifts from strange men but hey I'm only human and its not everyday a guy offers to buy you clothes from a designer shop) we obviously accepted and boy we honestly shopped till we dropped.And the weird thing was that the guy was more than willing to foot the bills,if we walk past a shop window he'll ask us if we wanted things from there ,that the clothes will look nice on us and that kind of shit and so we went to about 5 designer shops and bought loads of stuff,oh boy all 4 of us(thats my 2 friends and the guy) were carrying about 7 bags each,sometimes i felt sorry for the guy cos in one of the shops the bill was 15225 dhs(thats 435o dollars,more than i get in pocket money in 3 months)but he didn't even seem bothered he simply looked relaxed as he handed the shop attendant his credit card.
I know he'll probably be thinking he'll be getting sum from my friend since he spent so much money on us but she's still not interested(she says she never asked him for a minute to spend his money) well i agree with her but i hope she'll work sumthing out,anyway i'm glad he does,t know where any of us lives because i doubt he'll be happy if my friend tells him that she still doesnt give a fuck about him .


I'll blog about my housemates and other arab girls next tyme because i'm in a 2 good mood to write about anything negative

Wednesday, March 21, 2007

Arab girls and their PRETENCES

I knw that i promised 2 write about more positive issues last time but i have 2 speak out on what i noticed since i arrived here in the middle east "ARAB GIRLS AINT WHAT THEY SEEM TO BE".Being a naija girl i knw about the image we naija females have around da world,ask foreigners about us and majority of them will tell you that they heard that us nigerian girls are "GOLD DIGGING SCAVENGERS",WELL this were the exact words of a Lebanese boy in my class who has lived in nigeria all his life(he even understands yoruba).Some of them will tell you that many nigerian girls are pretenders but that some are 4 real but one thing i know for sure is that we nigerian girls are more honest than our arab counterparts who suprisingly have a clean worldwide image.Most men will tell you that arab girls are very loyal to their husbands/family and are good housekeepers but i strongly disagree.Arab girls (i say girls as in young ones between the age of 17-24 cos they r the once i'm normally in contact with)here in Dubai came as a shock 2 me cos i expected them 2 b as innocent as i heard they were and boy was i wrong. The first shock i got when i arrived at my dormitory was that i was the only none smoker(i knw smoking aint a big deal but imagine being a non smoker and being surrounded by 26 smokers blowing smoke over u all day long and from the warning my dad gave me about "messing around and disgracing our family name"in the presence of "humble"arab girls i was understandably shocked). After leaving in the hostel for a couple of weeks i realised that i was the only 1 that made it 2 my bed every single night in the whole dormitory (the average age of students here in the dorms is 18yrs cos most students live at home,the oldest is 2oyrs old)this might not be weird in western country but here it like a big tabooooo......................................................

to be continued.........................................................

Monday, March 19, 2007




OH YEAH I FORGOT 2 POST PICS OF DUBAI USED 2 LURE VISITORS,BUT DONT BE FOOLED.

da beginning

Being a nu member 2 blogsville i'd like 2 start my blog with an issue i feel very passionate about which is DA TREATMENT OF WOMEN HERE IN DA MIDDLE EAST.Being a JJC 2 dis part of da world i was blinded by da beauty of dis city ,da luxurious lifestyle ,n da excitement of being in dis famous city but how was i 2 knw dat i was only judging dis book by its pretty cover.
Honestly a girl can't walk 50metres on da street without being taunted by randy arab n indian men.i knw dat dis is a normal 2ing around da world but da men here jus take it 2 da extreme.i've lived in nigeria,canada,uk n australia(cos my family moves a lot)but nvr have i seen men behavin in dis kind of way.They make u feel dirty n very self conscious its a kinda form of mental abuse,i 2ink whenever they c a black girl who obviously aint a muslim cos her hair is not covered with a scarf or she is not wearing an abaya(a long black dress that muslim women wear 2 cover up)they decide that she is a prostitute n start 2 harass her or maybe dey jus do it cos dey aint getting none 4rm there wives.Sumtymes i blame da sisters 4 givin us a bad image here cos u'll c lots of naija girls coming here on the pretext of studying when wat dey do is throw themselves at randy arab men that a willing 2 spend big bucks on them n give them any2ing money can buy.
yeah DUBAI is a beautiful city with nice views but it starts 2 becum ugly 2 u once u experience da behavior of da ppl.The government here try 2 blind foreigners with da development of da country n by tellin u dat its 1 of da safest place on earth but its not true,women/girls get raped a lot n if they an unfortunate enough 2 b raped by a local(a ctizen of da country)da man will definitely not b penalised n u will b accused of adultery(sharia law).men also get raped here cos there is a high amount of gay ppl hu obviously nvr cum out 2 say they r gay cos its illegal.N do u knw dat if u have malaria or tuberculosis u will get deported.
So i advice any1 coming 2 da UAE or DUBAI 2 cum enjoy ur holiday n go bak 2 where u came 4rm cos u'll only regret ur decision 2 settle down here.

(i knw dat i might have bin starting my blogggin on a negative note but i honestly had 2 get dis off my chest.But i promise 2 blog bout more positive issues nxt tyme)